I’m too busy playing Triple Town on facebook to actually write a blog post, but I did feel the need to let the masses…though they be few…know something. The last two blog posts have had comments from a fellow who goes by the name Bansy. He left several comments that some deemed aggressive. He seemed disturbed by the idea of me being homosexual after living for so many years as a heterosexual woman. He and I had several exchanges on this blog as well as through email. At no point were any of those exchanges deemed aggressive by me. He asked questions and I tried to answer them to the best of my ability.
A few days ago I received an email from Bansy. He had reread the posts and comments and had this to say, “ I realise they’ve come off as VERY aggressive and intrusive which wasn’t my intention. I have been in a real tizz of late…”
He apologized for the way his comments came across and told me to delete them if I felt that it was necessary. I don’t find it necessary. He seems like a nice guy who is having a bad day. I totally get that! I have absolutely no problem with people leaving comments on my blog. I don’t mind giving someone an audience even if we don’t share the same views. I won’t condone hatred or mean-spirited comments. I don’t feel like Bansy’s were over the top on either account. I had no problem publishing them. He is welcome to comment again.
Midlife Natalie 
I don’t think I’d be so generous with the acceptance, but then, you are a far more accepting person than I anyway. I find I don’t tolerate this kind of nonsense from people who know nothing about the subject, haven’t bother to become informed, demand attention and flame throw for effect. Sounds like perhaps he was the victim of some sort of confusion in his own life somewhere. Not necessarily his own, but perhaps someone close to him. Sad, really.